Love and Guy Best Friend

“I have a best friend of the opposite sex, and he means the whole world to me. We’re not dating and yes, we do laugh together, that isn’t flirting, it’s called a joke. I can tell him secrets and he will keep them. I can trust him with my life and they make me smile on a daily basis.” A best friend is someone who you think you will have there forever. Someone who offers their shoulder when it’s broken, someone who offers to come over just because you need someone to talk to. A best friend is someone who bitches at you for no reason and you want to run after each other. A best friend is someone who you can have fun with without the beer and weed. Someone who you hate sometimes but in the morning shit doesn’t matter because you love him. Someone who you’ve been through hell and back with, yet you still loves each other. Someone you trust and cherish every moment, even the horrible ones with them. Someone you know if the world was ending, you’d call them first. “There is no better feeling than laughing with your best friend.”

“When you look around and your world is crumbling or when you think no one loves you, your best friend is the one to run to you.” I could try to explain why we are best friends. But, honestly, you wouldn’t get it. It’s full of inside jokes, stupid nicknames, amazing memories, laughs, tears..everything. It’s the times we talked for hours, venting, and supported each other. It’s the times we had stomach aches from laughing too hard. It’s the times we danced like we don’t care who see us because we are lovers;). It’s the times we texted, promising to each other to never hurt each other or forget the amazing times we’ve had. It’s the times we promised to treat each other like sisters and. It’s the times we made up random nick names for each other. It’s every moment, every memory, every laugh, every smile, and every hug. It’s him and me, together forever.

Most girls want a guy best friend. He would know what makes you happy, what makes you sad; he would give you the best gifts because he knows exactly what you want. Guy best friends have probably been with you through thick and thin. I think that is perfect… Because, shouldn’t the person you fall in love with be your best friend?

Having a guy as your best friend is great. No drama, free boy advice from an actual boy’s point of view, and non awkward movie nights and video game hangouts. They’re loyal, extremely funny, and most of them know how to keep a secret. You spend every minute of the school day you can with them and Skype with them when you’re not together. You laugh with him, you cry in front of him, you’d die for him, and you will always fall for them. You will always fall in love with him.

Those guys:
* you can talk to hours to.
* spill any problems too and they’ll sit and listen.
* that look out for you.
* make sure you’re okay whenever they see you.
* can make you laugh until you cry.
* talk about ANYTHING to and it not even be awkward between you
* who’s friendship you value more than others
* that are like brothers to you
..are the best guys of your teen life. Dont let them slip for stupid reasons like ‘they develop feelings for you’, take the offer or let them down gently. You never know when you’re gonna need your guy best friend.

I love having guy best friends. Of course, having girl best friends are the best too! But it’s something different with guys. I mean I love those boys who you just spill your heart out to and all they do is listen and comfort you. They don’t complain about you complaining to them because they’re used to it. They already know and accept who you are…. Guy best friends are the greatest<3

I want a guy best friend. I want one that will hold me when I cry. I want one that will tell me everything will be okay when I’ve been broken into a million pieces. I want to spend my summer with him walking barefoot through the street. I want one that will be there for me. One that, I’ll see every day. Then I wouldn’t need love. I would get it all from him. Having a guy best friend: Girls with a guy best friend is so much better than having someone of the same sex. Guys are not the type to start drama, being two faces, but actually listens to your problems and complaints. Girls on the other hand might take things too serious while guys are emotionally stronger at times. We are filled with advises and opinions from a totally different point of view.

Remember how close we used to be?
We texted all day, especially during the summer. You would even send me those really cute messages while I’m sleeping & I would wake up to them every morning! We would always Face time or video chat, and you would play songs for me because you’re super talented! I went to your house a few times, and those days were always really fun. During class, you liked drawing in my notebooks and you had a talent for drawing stick figures! You would always ask me for advice, and I would always feel comfortable telling you a bunch of crap in my life.

I miss my guy best friends. He is the guy that I don’t have to worry about. Don’t get me wrong. I do like my girl best friends, but it’s just something else when you’re talking to a close friend who is of the opposite sex. I don’t have to worry about impressing my guy friend. They don’t start drama. They make me laugh at the dumbest stuff. He gives me his honest opinions. He brings up the most random and interesting topics into a conversation. He messes up my hair and they don’t care. He isn’t demanding. He doesn’t have period. He’ll be gentle because they know that I’m his female friend. But the thing I miss the most about my guy best friend is our conversations about love, relationships, and feelings. Guy seems to always give the best advice when it comes to that stuff. I miss having that guy best friend who’d remind me that I’m a great girl and that there will always be others, who’d keep all my secrets, and would just be a helping hand throughout everything. It’s one of the best bonds that you can have with a person I think. There’s no awkwardness or misunderstandings. I miss that and I wish we could still be like that. I wish I could bury my head into your shoulder right now and tell you what’s wrong with me. I need my bros.

HAVING A GUY BEST FRIEND…
* You can have someone to ask for opinions about guy problems…
* You can do weird stuffs together…
* You can just talk and talk about almost everything.
* You can tell them secrets…
* They are funny…
* They can act like your big brother…
* They get to protect you from other boys…
* They really listen to you…
I LOVE YOU,POES.

I miss how it all used to be. I miss always being able to talk to my boyfriend and always talking about everything. I miss having my 2 ‘big brothers’ and how I could be myself with them. I miss my best friend and how close we were. I just wish it was all back to normal :c