A Feature Article – Bullied bullying bully

Nowadays in our society, many people suffering in different kinds of bullying, for example: Cyberbullying, Disability bullying, Gay bullying, School bullying, Sexual bullying or even Workplace bullying etc. No matter how old are you, you may also have such kind of experience. Almost a third of teens either were bullies or were bullied, some of them even afraid to wake up to go to school. ” Bullying is when a person is picked on over and over again by an individual or group with more power, either in terms of physical strength or social standing. ” First of all, Cyberbullying mean any bullying done through the use of technology, like using email, instant messaging, text messaging, websites, social networking sites (Facebook, Twitter, Wei Bo etc.) Although the person does not get any physical influence, he or she will get a psychological influence inside their heart forever. Moreover, School bulling is the most common bullying happen in our daily life. Your friends, your son, your students, your neighbor even yourself were the victim.

Two of the main reasons student in school were bullied are because of their appearance or their social status. The other thinks they are not fit in, maybe because of how they look, how they act (for example, kids who are shy and withdrawn), their race or religion, or because the bullies think they may be gay or lesbian. So however, how do we prevent bullying? Or how we can face it? It is in the hands of everyone. Their parents, teachers, friends or even social workers need to listen and watch. For younger kids, the best way to solve a bullying problem is to tell a trusted adult since they can help you by their experience of life. If you are in a bullying situation that you think may escalate into physical violence, try to avoid being alone and if you have a friend that in this situation, spend as much time together as you can since it can let he or she having more security. Last, Bullying is not a good way for you to build your power or confidence. You should build a wide interpersonal network with heart, so that you will get a life that rich of happiness. Bullying Survival Tips

Ignore the bully and walk away
if you walk away or ignore hurtful emails or instant messages, you’re telling the bully that you just don’t care. Sooner or later the bully will probably get bored with trying to bother you. Hold the anger

If you’re in a situation where you have to deal with a bully and you can’t walk away with poise, use humor — it can throw the bully off guard. Don’t get physical
You are more likely to be hurt and get into trouble if you use violence against a bully. You can stand up for yourself in other ways, such as gaining control of the situation by walking away. Practice confidence

Practice ways to respond to the bully verbally or through your behavior. Practice feeling good about yourself Take charge of your life
You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can stay true to yourself. You can make new friends and feel good about yourself. The confidence you gain will help you ignore the mean kids. Talk about it

It may help to talk to teacher, or friend — anyone who can give you the support you need. Talking can be a good outlet for the fears and frustrations that can build when you’re being bullied. Find your (true) friends

Find one or two true friends and confide how the gossip has hurt your feelings. Set the record straight by telling your friends quietly and confidently what’s true and not true about you